My ancestor is Buford Kay of Virginia, born around 1819/1820, presumably in Bedford County, and who married Frances Dearen, for whom there's considerable ancestry material. Going earlier than that for the Kays has been a frustrating effort. Records are remarkably sparse for this family. My assumption is that they were of "cohee" ilk, probably not landowners and generally off the census radar for a large part. The whole family apparently spelled their name "Cay" frequently in the early days. I found not only my Buford descendants, but also another family that I believe to be allied, the descendants of William B. Kay and Harriett PARKER. I believe these families to be related, but have no proof other than circumstantial evidence. I have constructed a conjectural relationship pattern for the early Cays to show this relationship, but it's based on very weak evidence at best. In addition to what's shown below, there was a Henry Kay who popped up in Pittsylvania County in the 1789 tax record. Occasionally, the name has been erroneously transcribed as Coy. There is a Wiliam Coy in the 1790 Amherst County tax record. There is an Anthony Coy in the 1810 US census for Amherst County. Then a Samuel P. Coy, wife Elizabeth, had a daughter Willie Ann Coy 14 May 1868 in Amherst County.
I suspect that most of the men's "B." middle names are "Buford." There's probably an important marriage early on between Kays and Bufords, but I haven't been able to find it.
Although some search engines freely conflate Kay with Key, I have never found one certain instance of crossover. Every Cay/Kay record I've found has been with an a, not an e.
There are various black Kays who show up in the same general area of Virginia after the Civil War, but I'm certain that these are former slaves from Kay plantations in eastern Virginia and North Carolina, with no known connections to the families treated here. Since these people were apparently not large landowners, it is unlikely that they were slaveholders.
1. James CAY, m(1) 02 May 1785 Bedford, VA (a John Buford provided surety), m(2) 20 Nov 1798 Bedford, VA: Rockbridge, VA 1820 sp(1)--Mary TOLLY 11. Nelson CAY, m 08 Feb 1816 Campbell, VA sp--Ann O. BLOUNT 12. Unknown KAY sp--Elizabeth F. ____ 121. Buford CAY, b 1818 Bedford, VA, d 12 May 1864 Richmond, VA, m 22 Dec 1842 Bedford, VA sp--Frances DEAREN, b 1824 VA, d/o Richard DEAREN & Elizabeth THURMAN 122. Martha Ann KAY, m 01 Jun 1840 Bedford, VA sp--Robert BOYLE 123. William B. KAY (also designated Nills or Wills or V. B. KAY), b ~1820?, d bef 1860? sp--Harriett PARKER, b 1823 Bedford, VA, m(2) 13 Jun 1868 Craig, VA to Edward HOOD, s/o Edward & Henrietta HOOD; Botetourt, VA 1850, Craig, VA 1860 sp(2, of James CAY)--Katy DOOLEY, ?d/o Thomas DOOLEY
Most of the following descendancy is pretty solid. The placement of William Kay born 1869, in the 1900 Roanoke census, is very uncertain. William who is presumed to be that person's father kind of disappears from the radar. However, Samuel and John's descendancies are well-established. Samuel moved to Ohio, and John moved to Missouri.
1. Buford KAY, b 1818 Bedford, VA, d 12 May 1864 Richmond, VA, m 22 Dec 1842 Bedford, VA; Bedford, VA 1850 (as COY) sp--Frances DEAREN, b 1824 VA, d/o Richard DEAREN & Elizabeth THURMAN; Bedford, VA 1850 (as COY) 11. Samuel R. CAY, b Oct 1841 VA, d 31 Mar 1901 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, m 25 Dec 1865 Roanoke, VA; Bedford, VA 1850 (as COY), Muskingum, OH 1880, 1900 sp(1)--Martha A. HOGAN, b Oct 1846 VA, d 25 Nov 1916 Muskingum, OH, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d/o John HOGAN & Saluda Ann NABOR; Muskingum, OH 1880, 1900, 1910 (w/ son James William) 111. Lula F. KAY, b 09 Oct 1866 VA, d 08 Jan 1916 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, m 29 Jul 1885 Muskingum, OH; Muskingum, OH 1880 sp--Dutton DAVIS, b 27 Aug 1862 Zanesville, OH, d 24 Aug 1930 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, s/o Gilbert & Caroline DAVIS; Muskingum, OH, 1870, 1880, 1920, 1930 1111. Rosswell Samuel DAVIS, b 31 May 1886 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d 01 Nov 1928 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH 1112. Fred DAVIS, b 29 Jun 1888 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d 14 Jun 1939 Bath, Allen, OH 1113. Earl DAVIS, b 1890 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH 1114. Ruth H. DAVIS, b 26 May 1892 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, m 09 Oct 1909 Muskingum, OH sp--Clyde C. RUSSELL, b 25 Jul 1888 Muskingum, OH, d 17 Apr 1912 Muskingum, OH, s/o Leonard C. RUSSELL & Evaline SMITH, rem. Mary A. MYERS 1115. Carl DAVIS, b 1899 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH 1116. Nellie DAVIS, b 02 Jun 1902 Muskingum, Muskinum, OH, d 111 Feb 1996 Muskingum, Muskingum, OH sp--Franklin Russell McBRIDE, b 09 Jan 1898 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d 04 Aug 1923 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, s/o Charles Adrian McBRIDE & Bessie LEMON 11161. Nancy Lee McBRIDE, b 13 Oct 1935 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d 18 Feb 1953 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH 112. James William KAY, b 22 Feb 1870 Muskingum OH, d 03 Aug 1930 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, bur Woodlawn Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH; Muskingum, OH 1880, 1900, 1910, 1920, 1930 sp--Terressa May FRAME, b 25 Feb 1880 Muskingum, OH, d 17 Jun 1937 Perry, OH, bur Woodlawn Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, rem. ____ STREET; Muskingum, OH 1900, 1910, 1920, 1930 1121. Samuel R. KAY, b 1897 OH, d 06 Oct 1902, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, nm, ni; Muskingum, OH 1900 1122. Florence Ethel KAY, b 22 Jun 1901 OH Zanesville, Muskingum, OH; Muskingum, OH 1910 1123. Della Ruth KAY, b 17 Jun 1902 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH; Muskingum, OH 1910, 1920 113. John H. KAY, b 23 Dec 1873 Washington, Muskingum, OH; Muskingum, OH 1880, 1900, 1910, 1920, 1930 sp--Ada Minna BRADFORD, b 07 Mar 1876 Adamsville, Muskingum, OH, d 22 Aug 1964 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, bur New Hope Lutheran Cem, Adamsville, Muskingum, OH, d/o Samuel & Susan BRADFORD; Muskingum, OH 1900, 1910, 1920, 1930 1131. Dorothy Cleo KAY, b 16 Oct 1908 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d 31 Oct 1999 Muskingum, OH, m Jul 1932 Licking, OH; Muskingum, OH 1910, 1920, 1930, 1940 (as GRIFFIN) sp--Blaine K. GRIFFIN, b 25 Jun 1911 Alligan, MI, s/o Robb GRIFFIN & Florence BLAINE; Muskingum, OH 1940 11311. Jeanine GRIFFIN, b 1940 OH; Muskingum, OH 1940 1132. Lela G. KAY, inf. dau., bur New Hope Lutheran Cem, Adamsville, Muskingum, OH 114. Ferdinand Buford KAY, b 04 Jun 1877 Salem Twp, OH, d ?13 Nov 1944 San Bernardino, CA, m 07 Apr 1903 Muskingum, OH, ni?; Muskingum, OH 1880, 1900, 1910, Los Angeles, CA 1920, San Bernardino, CA 1930, 1940 sp(1)--Myrtle L. SCHAFER, b 1883 Noble, OH, d/o William H. SCHAFER & Lucinda E. EPPLER; Muskingum, OH 1910, Los Angeles, CA 1920 sp(2)--Hester Ann ____, b 1882 WV 115. Bessie May KAY, b 22 Mar 1883 OH Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d 02 May 1963 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, m 12 Apr 1902 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH; Muskingum, OH 1900 sp--Frank A. FLOWERS 1151. Edgar Sammie FLOWERS, b 1901 Muskingum, OH, d 17 Jun 1942 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH 1152. Harold R. FLOWERS, b 15 Jul 1907, d 05 Sep 1973, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH sp--June B. ____, b 26 Jun 1921 1153. Ralph Russell FLOWERS, b 10 Nov 1914 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d 12 Dec 1951, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH 116. Bruce Lane KAY, b 22 Nov 1886 Zanesville, OH, d 21 Oct 1915 Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, m 12 Feb 1907 Muskingum, OH; Muskingum, OH 1900, 1910 sp--Nettie May HAMLER, b 1888 Zanesville, OH, d 13 Jun 1959, bur Greenwood Cem, Zanesville, Muskingum, OH, d/o Charles HAMLER & Annie L. DOVER; Muskingum, OH 1910, 1920 (living alone with lodger), 1930 (with Arcella and Edna), 1940 (alone) 1161. Arcella R. KAY, b 1910 OH; Muskingum, OH 1910, 1920 (in childrens home or school), 1930 1162. Edna KAY, b 1914 OH; Muskingum, OH 1920 (w/ gps HAMLER), 1930 sp(2, of Samuel): Minnie PENOCK sp--??Walter McQUESTEN 11621. ??Walter McQUESTEN, b 1936 OH, m 29 Dec 1961 Logan, OH sp--Carol Jean AKEY, b 1938, d/o Bernice Leo AKEY & Lucille BRISEBOIS 117. Maud CAY, b 31 Jul 1892 Mt Victory, Hardin, OH 12. William B. CAY, b 1848; Bedford, VA 1850 (as COY) 13. John KAY, b 04 Aug 1855 Roanoke, VA, d 13 Mar 1909 Clinton, MO, m 21 Dec 1876 Roanoke, VA, sp--Cinderella Ocella (Olie) SNEAD, b 18 Dec 1857 Salem, Roanoke, VA, d 21 Jan 1950 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO, d/o Robert A. SNEAD & Pocahontas CLOUDIS 131. Oscar Berryman KAY, b 27 Sep 1877 Campbell, VA, d 31 Mar 1960 Clearmont, Nodaway, MO, bur Miriam Cemetery, Maryville, Nodaway, MO, ni? sp--May ELLIS, b 17 Sep 1867 Rock Port, Atchison, MO, d 30 Aug 1936 Maryville, Nodaway, MO, bur Miriam Cemetery, Maryville, Nodaway, MO, d/o Thomas ELLIS & Elizabeth KIDD 132. Roberta Lillian KAY, b 02 Jun 1879 Salem, Roanoke, VA, d 02 Jan 1939 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO, m Dec 1897 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO sp--Oscar Wiley TROUT, b 26 Jun 1874 Roanoke, Roanoke, VA, d 12 Jul 1939 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO, s/o David S. TROUT & Sarah C. PERSINGER 13211. Cora Gale TROUT, b 19 Oct 1899 Lilly, Clinton, MO, d 12 Dec 1899 MO 13212. Alice Susan Mae TROUT, b 04 Oct 1900 Lilly, Clinton, MO, d 12 Oct 1987 Olathe, Johnson, KS, m 23 December 1919 Buchanan, MO sp--Charles Albert KNOUSE, b 05 Oct 1891 Gower, Clinton, MO, d 12 Jun 1962 Cassville, Barry, MO, s/o John Henry KNOUSE & Mary Emma WITT 132121. Charles Allison KNOUSE, DO, b 14 Mar 1921 Platte, MO, d 1 Aug 1992 Athens, Athens, OH sp--Iris Christine EHRENREICH, b 09 Jul 1923 Brooklyn, NY, d 01 Mar 1992 Gallipolis, Gallia, OH, d/o Jacob EHRENREICH & Christine KNUDSEN 1321211. Thea Christine KNOUSE sp--Fred Dee PRICE, DO, s/o Samuel Kay PRICE & Elsie Mae WESTERBROOK 13212111. David John PRICE 13212112. Christine Elizabeth PRICE 13212113. Susan Kay PRICE 1321212. Charles Allison KNOUSE, Jr., DO sp(1)--Nancy Gwyneth LEWIS, d/o Brinley LEWIS sp(2)--Jacki Lynn RICE, d/o Paul & Brenda RICE 13212121. Charles Andrew KNOUSE 13212122. Max Christopher KNOUSE 13212123. Hannah Christine KNOUSE 13212124. Cameron Paul KNOUSE 1321213. Karen Elizabeth KNOUSE, DO sp--Larry Bernard BRUNGARDT, s/o Jacob BRUNGARDT 1321214. John Arthur KNOUSE (div) sp--Elizabeth Lynn FREY, d/o Robert Servetus FREY & Elizabeth Ann LEWIS 13212141. Elizabeth Alice KNOUSE sp--Peter FERLAND 13212142. Rachel Vivian KNOUSE 132122. Winifred Ruth KNOUSE, b 11 Apr 1923, Pickering, Nodaway, MO, d 25 Jul 2000 Hamburg, Berks, PA, bur St Peters Lutheran Ch Cem, Molltown, Berks, PA, m 22 Jun 1946 Kansas City, Jackson, MO sp--Paul Frederick LILIENTHAL 1321221. John Metlie LILIENTHAL sp--Ulla-Lena Elisabeth LINSTROM 13212211. Ingrid Elisabeth LILIENTHAL 13212212. Christopher Rauno LILIENTHAL 13212213. John LILIENTHAL 13212211. Tim LILIENTHAL 1321222. Margaret Ann LILIENTHAL, ni sp--Stephen Edward BROUGHALL 1321223. Peter Frederick LILIENTHAL, b 1954 Wilson, Northampton, PA, d 12 Oct 2012 FL, div sp--Cynthia Jane CANTOR, rem. KRUGER 13212231. Jane Alyse LILIENTHAL sp--Mario A. TOSCANO 132122311. Meaghan S. TOSCANO 132122312. Mario A. TOSCANO 13212232. Rachael Dawn LILIENTHAL 13212233. Joshua Paul LILIENTHAL 132123. Shirley Elizabeth KNOUSE, b 23 Feb 1925 Winchester, Jefferson, KS, d 11 Jan 1987 Kansas City, Wyandotte, KS, m(1) 17 Feb Edmond, OK, m(2) Feb 1961 KS sp(1)--Charles Joseph BOWER, b 02 Mar 1923 Memphis, Shelby, TN, d 12 Jan 1961 Topeka, KS, bur Ft Leavenworth Nat Cem, Leavenworth, KS, s/o of David Joseph BOWER & Clover Reliance COLLINS 1321231. David Joseph BOWER, b 11 Nov 1943 Kansas City, Jackson, MO, d 31 May 1979 Kansas City, Jackson, MO, m 28 Jan 1967 Roeland Park, Johnson, MO sp--Beverly Ann BRAUN, d/o Lawrence Adolphus BRAUN & Bertha Von McKELVEY, rem Alan Harry MORRIS 13212311. Jeffrey David BOWER, b 21 May 1969, d 28 Apr 2009 sp--Elizabeth PLONKA, b ca. 1973 13212312. Lisa Christine BOWER 1321232. Michael Fletcher BOWER sp--Ruth HUSTEDDE 13212321. Beth Elaine BOWER (adopted) 13212322. Emily Elizabeth BOWER 13212323. Charles Andrew BOWER 13212324. Stephen Nicholas BOWER 1321233. Deborah Kay BOWER, b 17 Feb 1951 Kansas City, Jackson, MO, d 1995 KS, m 13 Aug 1971 Prairie Village, KS sp--John William HIMPLE sp(2)--Jules Francis GROGAN, b 25 Feb 1918 MO, d 02 Jan 1994, bur Leavenworth Nat Cem, Leavenworth, KS, s/o Jules Francis & Martha Ann GROGAN 13213. Ralph David Kent TROUT, b 11 Jan 1904 Holt, Clinton, MO, d 28 Sep 1966 Colorado Springs, CO, m 1928; Clinton, MO 1910, 1920, 1930, Holt, MO 1940 sp--Martha Loretta NEWMAN. b 1911 MO; Holt, MO 1940, Clinton, MO 1930 132131. James Royce TROUT, b 1935 MO; Holt, MO 1940 sp-- 1321311. James TROUT 1321312. Patricia TROUT 1321313. Ralph TROUT 1321314. Kenneth TROUT 1321315. Michael TROUT 132132. Mary Eloise TROUT, b 1937 MO; Holt, MO 1940 sp--James THOMAS 1321321. Gary THOMAS 1321322. Sharon THOMAS 1321323. Robert THOMAS 13214. Frances Elizabeth TROUT, b 27 Aug 1907 MO, d 29 Sep 1982, bur Lathrop Cem, Lathrop, Clinton, MO sp--George Thomas COMBS, b 31 Aug 1906, d 02 Mar 1983, bur Lathrop Cem, Lathrop, Clinton, MO 132141. Mary Frances COMBS sp--George STURGES 13215. Roberta Florence TROUT, b 24 Dec 1911 Lilly, Clinton, MO, d Kansas City, Jackson, MO 13216. Vivian Pauline TROUT, b 05 Sep 1916 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO, d 06 Aug 1947, m Dec 1935 sp--Owen G. TAYLOR, b 1914 MO 132161. Janice M. TAYLOR, b 1937 MO 132162. Marylin TAYLOR, b 1940 MO 133. Susan Page KAY, b 28 Nov 1881 MO, d 17 Dec 1929 North Kansas City, Clay, MO, bur Fairview Cem, Liberty, Clay, MO, m 12 Dec, 1912 sp--Leslie Ezekiel PAINTER, b 27 Dec 1886, d 10 Jan 1953, bur Fairview Cem, Liberty, Clay, MO, s/o Isaac James PAINTER & Mary Elizabeth GRIGSBY 1331. Leona PAINTER, b 02 Jun 1914 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO, d 30 Apr 1999 Liberty, Clay, MO sp--Russell COE, b 06 Jul 1913, d 13 Aug 1975, bur Liberty, Clay, MO, m. several times, including twice to Leona 13311. Leon Lewis COE, b 08 Sep 1935, d.? 13312. Floyd Leroy COE sp--Carol ____ 133121. Mike COE 133122. Joey COE 1332. Robert L. PAINTER, b 07 Mar 1915 MO, d 23 Oct 1991 Grove, OK, bur Olympus Cem, Grove, Delaware, OK, m 17 Nov 1934 Kansas City, Jackson, MO sp--Verna Gladys DAVIS, b 05 May 1918 Kansas City, Jackson, MO, d 27 Jan 2007 Montrose, Montrose, CO, bur Olympus Cem, Grove, Delaware, OK, obit at FaG 13321. Robert Leslie PAINTER - Montrose, CO (m. several times) sp--Janet ____ 133211. Robert Dale PAINTER - Springfield, MO sp--Irene ____ 13322. Marie Sue PAINTER sp(1)--____ DODSON 133221. Sharon D. DODSON sp--____ HILLIER sp(2)--Jerry PETERS 1333. Gladys G. PAINTER, b 10 Jul 1917 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO, d 31 Mar 2001 Liberty, Clay MO, bur Mt Washington Cem, Independence, Jackson, MO, obit at FaG, m 02 Apr 1934; Platte, MO 1940 as Annabell? sp--Wilbur Wilson NASH, b 20 Feb 1911 Waldron, Platte, MO, d 26 Mar 1991 Independence, Jackson, MO, bur Mt Washington Cem, Independence, Jackson, MO, s/o William Alva NASH & Carrie WILSON; Platte, MO 1940 13331. Harold E. NASH, b 1936 MO; Platte, MO 1940 sp(1)--Rosemary ____ 133311. Cindy Marie NASH sp(2)--Sara ____ 133312. Rex Allen NASH 13332. Sandra N. NASH sp--Ralph William (Butch) HEINMAN, b 26 Dec 1946, d 05 Sep 2005 133321. Shelly Marie HEINMAN sp--____ WOODWARD 133322. Johnny Mack HEINMAN 134. William H. (or P.; "Will") KAY, b 19 Jan 1884 Clinton, MO, d 1962, bur Miriam Cem, Maryville, Nodaway, MO, m 01 Dec 1909 sp--Ginnie or Jennie FLETCHER, b 1892 KS, d 01 Oct 1957, was orphan 1341. Catherine (Cathy) KAY, b 1912 1342. Bessie KAY, b 1913 1343. John KAY, b 1919 1344. James KAY, b 1922 135. Frances J. ("Fan" or "Fannie") KAY, b 03 May 1888 Clinton, MO, d 10 Apr 1947 N Kansas City, Clay, MO, bur Fairview Cem, Liberty, Clay, MO sp--Franklin E. WATT, b 1885 MO 1351. Hugh C. WATT, b 18 Oct 1910 Lathrop, Clinton, MO, d 06 Aug 2004 Dillon, Dillon, SC, bur Lake View Cem, Dillon, SC; Bexar, TX 1940, Capt. US Army, in WWII & Korea sp(1)--Kathleen S. ____ 13514. Jean G. WATT, b 09 Oct 1934 Dillon, SC, d 27 Mar 1980 Wilmington, New Hanover, NC, bur Cedardale Cem, Mullins, marion, SC sp--James Carl FLOYD, Sr., rem. Mildred ____ 135141. James Carl FLOYD, Jr. sp--Lisa ____ 1351411. Madison FLOYD 135142. Kathryn J. FLOYD sp--Jamie McQUEEN 1351421. Grayson McQUEEN 1351422. Chase McQUEEN sp(2)--Ella Hermina HAECKER, b 1915 TX 13511. Charles Edward WATT, b 14 Sep 1936 Bexar, TX, m 01 May 1982, div 19 Sep 1983 Gonzales, TX sp--Glenda G. FERRELL, b 1935 13512. Constance Irene WATT, b 27 Sep 1937 Bexar, TX sp--____ THURBER 13513. Marian Frances WATT, b 06 Mar 1939 Bexar, TX, m 29 Mar 1972 Harrison, TX sp--Kenneth E. CONNOR, b 1943 1352. Dorothy F. WATT, b 1916 1353. Mary O. WATT, b 1918 136. Charles Canby ("Pete") KAY, b 17 Jun 1890 Plattsburg, Clinton, MO, d 12 Jun 1948 St. Joseph, Buchanan, MO sp--Mae DYKES, b 1894 MO, div KAY, rem James C. LEWIS d/o William H. C. & Janetta DYKES 1361. Lucille KAY, b 1914 MO; Buchanan, MO 1940 sp--J. W. STALDER, b 1913 MO, s/o Jesse & Della Mae STALDER; Buchanan, MO 1940 13611. Harold Dean STALDER, b 22 Dec 1934 MO, d 25 Nov 2001, bur Fulton Cem, Fulton, Aransas, TX; Buchanan, MO 1940 sp--Natalie MELLO 136111. Steven Dean STALDER, b 25 Oct 1963, d 20 Oct 2010, bur Fulton Cem, Fulton, Aransas, TX sp--Rebecca GARZA 1361111. Lauren Lynn STALDER sp--____ BAIN - Cooksville, TN 1361112. Megan STALDER sp--____ KNIGHT - Winterhaven FL 1361113. Joshua Dean STALDER - rockport 136112. Lisa STALDER 1362. Blanche KAY, b 1915 MO sp--Harry McBEE, b 1902 MO 13621. Everett McBEE, b 1939 AR 137. Lucille P. KAY, b May 1894 MO, d 1982, bur Maple Hill Cem, Kansas City, Wyandotte, KS sp--Carroll W. WRIGHT, b 1890, d 1953, bur Maple Hill Cem, Kansas City, Wyandotte, KS 1371. Milton M. WRIGHT, b 1917 MO, d 1992, bur Maple Hill Cem, Kansas City, Wyandotte, KS sp--Roberta M. ____, b 1919 IA, d 2006, bur Maple Hill Ce, Kansas City, Wyandotte, KS 138. Mabel Lee KAY, b Dec 1899 MO, ni sp--Floyd GIPSON
The presence of the John Kay born 1855 in the list below threw me for some time, since my ancestor is also John Kay born 1855 and living in the same areas. I'm conjecturing that the two were perhaps second cousins. I've well established that the one showing up in the census as shown below is, in fact, the John V. B. Kay cited below. The children of Georgie Alice Kay, below, are apparently born out of wedlock, since she shows up as G. Alice Kay as a two-year-old. Most records found were of Oscar Thomas Kay, who moved to Oregon. There's been a lot of confusion about the name of William B. Kay (probably B. for Buford), cited variously as Nills, Wills, or V. B., but I found a definite statement in Georgie Alice Kay's death record that her parents are the couple shown below.
1. William B. KAY, b ~1820?, d bef 1860? sp--Harriett PARKER, b 1823 Bedford, VA, m(2) 13 Jun 1868 Craig, VA to Edward HOOD, s/o Edward & Henrietta HOOD; Botetourt, VA 1850, Craig, VA 1860 - Harriett might be the daughter of Prince Parker of Bedford County, b 1792 11. McHenry KAY, b 17 Jun 1847 Bedford, VA, d 24 Feb 1930, bur West View Cem, New Castle Craig, VA, m 26 Jun 1870 Craig, VA, ni, was in Jordan's Battery/Bedford Light Artillery, CSA; Botetourt, VA 1850 (as John), Craig, VA 1860, 1870, 1910, 1920 sp--Sarah Jane BRIZENDINE, b 25 Jun 1850 Craig, VA, d 02 Apr 1929, bur West View Cem, New Castle, Craig, VA, d/o Laybourn BRIZENDINE & Elizabeth EANS; Craig, VA 1910, 1920 12. John V. B. KAY, b 16 Mar 1855 VA, d 30 Jul 1940 Pomona, Manistee, MI, m 26 Dec 1878 Botetourt, VA; Craig, VA 1860, 1870, Botetourt, VA 1880, Logan, OH 1900, Shelby, OH 1910, Benzie, MI 1920, Manistee, MI 1930, 1940 sp--Allura P. HOYLMAN, b 1862 VA, d/o Frankin & Mary HOILMAN?; Botetourt, VA 1880, Logan, OH 1900, Shelby, OH 1910, Benzie, MI 1920, Manistee, MI 1930, 1940 121. Naomi G. KAY, b 06 Apr 1885 Botetourt, VA, m 29 Jan 1903 Logan, OH; Logan, OH 1900, Campbell, WY 1920, 1930, 1940 sp--Owen Conner SHROYER, b 14 Dec 1880 Shelby, OH, s/o John A. SHROYER & Ida M. STALEY; Campbell, WY 1920, 1930, 1940 12111. Hazel Louise SHROYER, b 27 Oct 1903 Jackson, Shelby, OH, d 13 Sep 1912 Jackson, Shelby, OH, nm, ni 12112. Harmon W. SHROYER, b 30 Jun 1905 OH, d 05 Jul 1963, bur Mt Pisgah Cem, Gillette, Campbell, WY; Campbell, WY 1920, 1930 (on own) 12113. Carl SHROYER, dy 12114. Orlies Fletcher SHROYER, b 15 Jun 1909 Shelby OH, d 25 Jun 1992 Gillette, Campbell,WY, bur Lusk Cem, Lusk, Niobrara, WY, obit at FaG, m(1) 11 Aug 1935 Lusk, WY, m(2) 06 Jan 1967 Cleveland, TN; Campbell, WY 1920, 1930, 1940 sp(1)--Caroline Esther KNITTLE, b 07 Jun 1912 Lusk, WY, d 13 May 1962 Billings, MT, bur Lusk Cem, Lusk, Niobrara, WY, obit at FaG, d/o Frank Otto KNITTLE & Nettie Mae SWANSON; Campbell, WY 1940 121141. Eldora SHROYER, b 1937 WY; Campbell, WY 1940 sp--Reed NORTH 1211411. Terrance Reed NORTH, dy? 121142. Frank SHROYER - in USAF sp--Glenda SUTHERLAND 121143. Earle Lewis SHROYER sp--Pat FOSTER 121144. Vonda Lee SHROYER sp--Sigurd JOHNSON 121145. Dennis Eugene SHROYER sp--Sherry HERRING 121146. Gary Wayne SHROYER sp--Diane SCOTT sp(2)--Pearlene Bell WILLIAMS, b 12 Aug 1925, d 14 Oct 1997 Gillette, WY, bur Mt Pisgah Cem, Gillette, Campbell, WY, dau. Jessie by pre. m. 12115. Roger SHROYER, dy 12116. Pleonard SHROYER, b 25 Sep 1911 OH, d 21 May 2002 Clark, NV; Campbell, WY 1920, 1930 - Orange, CA 12117. Owen Estone SHROYER, b 25 Feb 1914 Jackson Center, Shelby, OH, d 02 Apr 2002 Rock Springs, Sweetwater, WY, bur Prairie Rest Cem, Guernsey, Platte, WY; Campbell, WY 1920, 1930, Pottawattamie, IA 1940 sp--Ruth C. BUTLER, b 22 Sep 1918 Faith, Meade, SD, d 16 Jun 1989 Casper, Natrona, WY, bur Prairie Rest Cem, Guernsey, Platte, WY, d/o Burtis Gilbert BUTLER & Agnes Elizabeth JAMESON; Pottawattamie, IA 1940 121141. Eileen SHROYER, b 1940 MN; Pottawattamie, IA 1940 12118. Delice SHROYER, b 1916 OH, dy?; Campbell, WY 1920, 1930 12119. Allura SHROYER, dy 1211A. Wyoma F. SHROYER, b 1920 WY, d 2004, bur Mem Gdns, Grand Junction, Mesa, CO; Campbell, WY 1930, 1940 sp--Clarence Arthur FREEMAN, b 23 Jan 1919 Burbank, Cook, IL, d 19 Aug 1991 Santa Paula, Ventura, CA, bur Mem Gdns, Grand Junction, Mesa, CO 1211B. Verna Isabel. SHROYER, b 02 Apr 1923 WY, d 17 Nov 2012, bur Ft Rosecrans Nat Cem, San Diego, CA, in Army WWII; Campbell, WY 1930, 1940 sp--Edwin C. BUCKMASTER, b 04 Apr 1912, d 10 Jul 1994, bur Ft Rosecrans Nat Cem, San Diego, CA, was field cook, USMC 1211C. Mary L. SHROYER, b 1925 WY; Campbell, WY 1930, 1940 - Sparks, NV sp--____ GANGNER 1211D. Lova Louina SHROYER, b 1928 WY; Campbell, WY 1930, 1940 -wheatland, WY sp--____ TOTH 1211E. Rosella SHROYER, b 1930 WY; Campbell, WY 1930, 1940 - Arvada, CA sp--____ BAKER 122. Ruth KAY, b 06 Apr 1885 Botetourt, VA 123. Hollie E. KAY, b 26 Oct 1889 Lapsley's Run, Botetourt, VA; Logan, OH 1900 124. Hammond Virgil KAY, b 15 Jan 1896 Champaign, Springhill, OH, d 02 Dec 1980 Cincinnati, Hamilton, OH; Logan, OH 1900, Shelby, OH 1910, Hamilton, OH 1940 125. Franklin C. KAY, b 1897 OH, d ?09 Nov 1906 Miami, Logan, OH; Logan, OH 1900 123. Dimple L. KAY, b 1898 OH, m 17 Sep 1916 Weldon, Benzie, MI; Logan, OH 1900, Shelby, OH 1910, Converse, WY 1920, Muskegon, MI 1930, Monroe, MI 1940 sp--Chlore SELLS, b 1894 IN, s/o John W. SELLS & Nancy E. KEEL; Converse, WY 1920, Muskegon, MI 1930, Monroe, MI 1940 1231. Virgil F. SELLS (f), b 1918 MI; Converse, WY 1920, Muskegon, MI 1930, Gratiot, MI 1940 1232. Jean M. SELLS (f), b 1920 WY; Converse, WY 1920, Muskegon, MI 1930, Monroe, MI 1940 1233. Howard H. SELLS, b 1921 WY; Muskegon, MI 1930, Monroe, MI 1940 1234. Lee SELLS, b 1932 MI; Monroe, MI 1940 1235. Nancy SELLS, b 1934 MI; Monroe, MI 1940 13. Georgie Alice KAY, b 14 Feb 1858 VA, d 22 Mar 1938 Benzonia, Benzie, MI, m 25 Nov 1919 Frankfort, Benzie, MI; Craig, VA 1860, 1880, 1900, 1910, Benzie, MI 1920 (as HARWOOD), 1930 fa-- 131. Walter B. KAY, b 1878 VA; Craig, VA 1880, 1900, 1910, 1930 sp--F. M. ____, b 1884 VA; Craig, VA 1930 132. Grover Lamont KAY, b 18 Feb 1888 New Castle, Craig, VA, d 1972, bur Eglington, Cem, Clarksboro, Gloucester, NJ; Craig, VA 1900, 1920, Phila, PA 1920, Gloucester, NJ 1930, 1940 sp--Carrie B. ____, b 1889 MD, d ?, bur Eglington Cem, Clarksboro, Gloucester, NJ; Phila, PA 1920, Gloucester, NJ 1930, 1940 1321. Carrie A. KAY, b 1908 MD; Philadelphia, PA 1920 1322. Virginia Bessie KAY, b 1920 PA, d ?30 Jan 1996 Glenshaw, Allegheny, PA; Phila, PA 1920, Gloucester, NJ 1930, 1940 sp--James E. HARWOOD, b 1866 MI, s/o Saul HARWOOD & Mary A. SEATON, prev. m to Rosa ____, who d bet 1900/1910, had ch. Mary A., Rosa B., Flora B., Laura M., George D., Lillie L., William S., Rosa may have daughter Olive K. SMITH by prev. m.; Benzie, MI 1880, 1900, 1910, 1920, 1930 14. Oscar Thomas KAY, b 1859 Craig, VA, m 14 Jul 1881 Craig, VA; Craig, VA 1860, 1880 (w/FISHERS), Clackamas, OR 1900, 1920, 1930 (alone as boarder) sp--Mary Ann FISHER, b 1858 Craig, VA, d/o Phillip & Harriett FISHER; Clackamas, OR 1900, 1920 141. Troy Letha KAY, b 11 Mar 1882 New Castle, VA, d 07 Apr 1957 OR; Wahkiakum, WA 1910, Cowlitz, WA 1920, Clatsop, OR 1940 sp(1)--Alice A. COOLEY, b 1888 WA, d/o Francis COOLEY; Wahkiakum, WA 1910, Cowlitz, WA 1920 1411. Edna O. KAY, b 1904 WA; Wahkiakum, WA 1910, Cowlitz, WA 1920 1412. Walter T. KAY, b 25 Jun 1907 WA, d 09 May 1989, bur Fairview Cem, Gates, Linn, OR, m 01 Jul 1929; Wahkiakum, WA 1910, Cowlitz, WA 1920, Clackamas, OR 1930, Marion, OR 1940 sp--Estella M. ____, b 24 May 1911 OR, bur Fairview Cem, Gates, Linn, OR; Marion, OR 1940 14121. Gordon KAY, b 1931 OR; Marion, OR 1940 1413. Roy C. KAY, b 14 Dec 1910 Cathlamet, Wahkiakum, WA, d 15 Apr 1999 McMinnville, Yamhill, OR, bur ?Evergreen Mem Pk, McMinnville, Yamhill, OR, obit at FaG, m 23 Sep 1930 Oregon City, OR; Cowlitz, WA 1920, Clackamas, OR 1940 sp--Violet B. GARRETT, b 1916 OR, d 2011 McMinnville, Yamhill, OR, bur Evergreen Mem Pak, McMinnville, Yamhill, OR, d/o T. G. & Ella GARRETT; Clackamas, OR 1940 14131. Alice Louise KAY, b 25 Jan 1931 Oregon City, Clackamas, OR, d 03 Mar 1999 Forest Grove, Washington, OR, obit at FaG, m 28 Feb 1948 Woodburn, OR; Clackamas, OR 1940 sp--Jesse E. WARREN, b 16 Oct 1922, d 15 Jan 1987, bur Forest View Cem, Forest Grove, Washington, OR 141311. Danny Roy WARREN, b 1948, d 25 Sep 1965 (train/car collision), bur Forest View Cem, Forest Grove, Washington, OR, article at FaG, nm, ni 141312. Margo WARREN sp--____ SELLIKEN 141313. Ronda WARREN 14132. Gwendolyn KAY, b 1933 OR; Clackamas, OR 1940 sp--____ CARL 14133. Bobbie Jean KAY sp(2)--Carrie Ann WHITFIELD, b 06 Jul 1895 Cucamonga, CA, d 19 Dec 1957 Lebanon, Linn, OR, bur IOOF Cem, Lebanan, Linn, OR, d/o William C. WHITFIELD & Ann MEYERS; Clatsop, OR 1940 142. Lena Virginia KAY, b 15 Feb 1886 Craig, VA, d 19 May 1967 Oregon City, Clackamas, OR, bur Wilhelm's Portland Mem, Portland, Multnomah, OR, obit at FaG; Clackamas, OR 1900 sp--Charles Louis STAUDINGER, b 15 Jul 1873 Waukon, Allamakee, IA, d 25 Jan 1951 Molalla, Clackamas, OR, bur Wilhelm's Portland Mem, Portland, Multnomah, OR 1421. Wilbur L. STAUDINGER, b 1907, d 1982, bur Maplewood Pioneer Cem, Scotts Mills, Clackamas, OR sp--Helen M. ____, b 1910, d 1961, bur Maplewood Pioneer Cem, Scotts Mills, Clackamas, OR 1422. ?Reta Ruth STAUDINGER, b 26 Jul 1905, d 30 Mar 1992, bur Willamette Nat Cem, Portland, Multnomah, OR, ET1, US Navy (last name Courter, could be sister instead of wife) sp--?Frank P. COURTER, b 26 Mar 1896, d 02 Jan 1957, bur Willamette Nat Cem, Portland, Multnomah, OR, Sgt, US Army 1423. ____ STAUDINGER sp--Edward H. STRAUB, b Nov 1901, d 09 Sep 1939, bur Forest View Cem, Forest Grove, Washington, OR 143. Inez Elizabeth KAY, b 28 Nov 1889 Clackamas, OR, d 04 Mar 1972 Oregon City, OR, bur Willamette Nat Cem, Portland, Multnomah, OR; Clackamas, OR 1900, Cowlitz, WA 1920, Multnomah, OR 1930 (as HUNT), 1940 (as RHOADS) sp(1)--James Andrew HUNT, b 1884 WA, d Mar 1940 OR, s/o Perry Oliver HUNT & Mary Josephine BIRT; Cowlitz, WA 1920, Multnomah, OR 1930 1431. Orvall (Orren) R. HUNT, b 1907 OR; Cowlitz, WA 1920 1432. Mary Ruth HUNT, b 12 Apr 1911 Ariel, Cowlitz, OR, d 05 Jan 1976 Portland, Multnomah, OR, bur Crescent Grove Cem, Tigard, Washington, OR, obit at FaG (states maiden name as RHOADS, several children claim ROADS as birth name); Cowlitz, WA 1920, Hood River, OR 1930 (as WOOD), Clackamas, OR 1940 sp(1)--Owen H. WOOD, ? b 1905, d 1985, bur Pacific View Mem Gdns, Lincoln, Lincoln, OR; Hood River, OR 1930, Clackamas, OR 1940 14321. Dolma Jean WOOD, b 1932 OR; Clackamas, OR 1940 14322. Donald Alfred WOOD, b 1935 OR; Clackamas, OR 1940 14323. Owen Leroy WOOD, b 1938 OR; Clackamas, OR 1940 14324. Dolly WOOD sp--____ STEVENS 14325. Mary WOOD sp--____ FRYETT sp--____ YEAGER 1433. Frances Inez HUNT, b 1913 Mollala, Clackamas, OR, d 11 Jul 1966 Portland, Multnomah, Oregon, bur Crescent Grove Cem, Tigard, Washington, OR; Multnoman, OR 1930 sp--George David REYNOLDS, b 10 Sep 1912 Chehalis, Lewis, WA, d 1987/1991 Pittsburg, Contra Costa, CA, bur Crescent Grove Cem, Tigard, Washington, OR 14331. Georgine REYNOLDS sp--____ BRODIE 1434. James A. HUNT, Jr., b 1915 Molalla, Clackamas, OR, d 1954 Pierce, Tacoma, WA; Cowlitz, WA 1920, Multnomah, OR 1930 sp--____ SMITH 1435. Leta D. HUNT, b 31 Oct 1922 Castle Rock, WA, d 17 Feb 2000 Sweet Home, Linn, OR; Multnomah, OR 1930 sp--Ray LEWALLEN, b 21 Jun 1918 Branson, MO, d 03 Sep 1990 Sacramento, Sacramento, CA 14551. ____ LEWALLEN 14552. ____ LEWALLEN 14553. ____ LEWALLEN 14554. ____ LEWALLEN 14555. Pattie Jo LEWALLEN, b 10 Jul 1940 Tillmonk, OR, d 18 Jan 1996 Sacramento, Sacramento, CA 14556. Fred Orval LEWALLEN, b 16 Dec 1945 Oregon City, OR, d 15 Nov 1978 Sacramento, Sacramento, CA 14557. Linda Kay LEWALLEN, b 28 Mar 1947, d 27 May 1995 Corvattis, OR sp(2)--Otto RHOADS, b 19 Dec 1891, d 07 Apr 1979, bur Willamette Nat Cem, Portland, Multnomah, OR, pvt US Army; Multnomah, OR 1940 144. Earl Latten KAY 145. Hazel Lorena KAY 146. George Lorenzo KAY, b 02 Apr 1899 OR, d 22 Nov 1985 Humboldt, CA; Clackamas, OR 1900, 1920, Linn, OR 1940 sp--?Neva ?DAVIS, b 1906 PA, ?div, ?rem Truman DUNN? 1461. Betty J. KAY, b 23 Jun 1922 WA, d ? 26 Jan 1990; ?Lewis or ?Stevens, WA 1930, Linn, OR 1940 147. Mary Edna KAY, b 01 Jan 1902, d 18 May 1994 Clackamas, OR; Clackamas, OR 1920, 1930 (as COURTER), 1940 sp--James Rob COURTER, b 1901 OR, d 25 Oct 1970 Clackamas, OR; Clackamas, OR 1930, 1940 1471. Beth L. COURTER, b 1927 OR; Clackamas, OR 1930, 1940 1472. Robert Phillip COURTER, b 27 Jan 1930 OR, d 29 Nov 1984, bur Willamette Nat Cem, Portland, Multnomah, OR, BMC US Navy; Clackamas, OR 1930, 1940Pleasant A. O. SNEED, b 1836 TN, d 1894 sp--Rosana SANDUSKY, 1825-1894 James W. SNEED, b 1856 TN, d 1896 Martha E. SNEED, b 1859 TN Mary C. SNEED, b 1861 TN George SNEED, b 1863 TN Eliza J. SNEED, b 1868 TN James SNEED, b 1832 TN, d 1907 sp(1)--Elizabeth SNEED, b 1834 TN, d1902 John H. SNEED, b 1856 TN Pleasant H. SNEED, b 1857 TN Martha SNEED, b 1863 TN sp(2)--Cecelia, b 1833 TN Jacob SNEED, b 1868 TN George SNEED, b 1870 TN Robert A. SNEED, 1833-